Pamper yourself. Divorce is stressful and can take a lot out of you, especially your self-esteem. Treat yourself to a weekend getaway or spa day.
Try new things. Trying one new thing a month will give you confidence in yourself and you never know who you might meet.
Stay connected ... to your female friends for company and support, but steer away from "male bashing." Keep the conversations positive. Putting down your ex or rehashing old hurts will only keep you in a negative and depressed state if mind.
Start now. Why? There are a three reasons. First, to practice dating, getting ready when it will really matters; second, get comfortable around romantic interests again — it's like working out, you have to get back into "dating shape"; third, it builds your self-confidence, improving your appeal!
Be happy. Take time to reflect on all of the positive things you have accomplished in your life. Exude happiness and know in your heart you have the power to create the life you want. Happiness is contagious and a very attractive quality.
Don't be desperate. Desperation creates a feeling of being needy. Communicating that you'll change or do anything for him/her lowers your value. Remember the saying "people want what they can't have and don't want what they can have.

Don't talk about your ex ... custody schedule, or why you got a divorce on the first five dates. Do talk about what you learned from your marriage and divorce, how you grew as a person and who you are now! Especially avoid any bashing or complaining.

Call Marsha at Introductions By Marsha. Introductions by Marsha provides the most successful single services in the San Francisco Bay area. She meets with you personally to learn about you first-hand. With her skilled questioning, she will get a sense of what you like and want in a partner, what is important to you and what your life goals are.
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